Adult BDSM Dating & Classified Site Needed

THIS PROJECT IS UP FOR PRIVATE BIDDERS ONLY. I am looking for a FEMALE designer, who is not afraid to voice her opinion, in fact I encourage it. All of the other sites I am building are being built by conservative males that have not been subjected to the lifestyle such as this. I have a back end that can be modified, but what I am looking for is either a girl very open minded or is familiar or involved in the lifestyle. It is one of four sites that will be built and intermingled. It will help broaden my client base, while keeping them separate. A 2nd step is to build a site that will handle R rated and above clients. It maybe the opportunity for someone to either take as a job, stepping stone or a way into the business of the type of sites you have to agree to enter. In no means is it going to be a phishing, spamming, all the cheesy click ads etc, infact advertisements will not be allowed unless passes a tough screening. No pay per clicks here. It is a startup so of course funding is limited, but to those interested will see that there is more than light at the end of the tunnel. If you are not in the US or English is a problem, I am patient and will take the time needed to make sure we see eye to eye. I want a self starter, self motivated person that does not need to be told everything to be done, just led in general directions. IN NO WAY WILL THIS SITE TOLERATE, PROMOTE OR BE PART OF ANYTHING ILLEGAL BID CAREFULLY, IT WILL NOT BE SIMPLE, I WANT TO TAKE MEASURES TO AVOID SCAMMERS, FAKES ETC.