Marriage Agency software

I need software for an International Marriage Agency site where American men can view profiles of Russian women for marriage. I want the men to register but their profiles should be invisible to everybody except themselves and the admin. Only women's profiles should be visible. The software should have all the features of a site like [login to view URL] including paid memberships, messaging, etc. This should not be standard dating software like osDate or BuddyPress because I only want registered women to be visible to users, registered men must not be seen by other users. Please don't send me a standard form letter. Please tell me which script you will use and which modifications you will make. Thank you.