Flash Media Player Like Brightcove or Youtube

We are searching for a Flash Media player for our companies website. We love the BrightCove media player, however we don't like having to play advertisements on our website. We want our users to be able to select from multiple videos from our library, vote on videos, email them to a friend, ratings etc... We also want a backend administration system where videos can be uploaded. Surely someone has already created such a media player... Show us a solution! Thanks